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Celebrating December Birthdays: The Unwritten Rules for All Ages

Jingle Bells and Birthday Wishes: Mastering the Art of December Birthday Celebrations

By Stephanie Freeman, Editor and Publisher November 30, 2023

December, a month filled with twinkling lights, holiday cheer, and the magical aura of winter, also hosts many birthdays. While this can be a joyous time, those with December birthdays often face unique challenges. Here's a light-hearted guide, suitable for all ages, on the do's and don'ts of celebrating December birthdays.



The Do's

1. Separate Celebrations: Treat the birthday as a distinct, special event. Just as you wouldn't combine two different holidays, keep the birthday separate from holiday festivities.

2. Unique Wrapping Paper: Avoid wrapping birthday presents in Christmas paper. It's like dressing up a Halloween costume for an Easter party! Opt for birthday-themed or neutral wrapping to make the gift feel personal.

3. Plan Ahead: With the holiday rush, it's easy for December birthdays to be overshadowed. Plan ahead to ensure the birthday person doesn't feel like an afterthought.

4. Special Outings: Consider a special outing that's not holiday-themed. A trip to an amusement park, a concert (maybe even one by Eric Church or Luke Bryan!), or a fun family adventure in your hometown can make the day memorable.

5. Personalized Themes: For kids, consider birthday themes that reflect their interests, be it fast cars, technology, or their favorite cartoon. This ensures the day is about them, not the season.



The Don'ts

1. No Combined Gifts: Resist the temptation to give one 'combined' Christmas and birthday gift. Two separate gifts honor the individuality of the birthday and the spirit of the holiday.

2. Avoid Holiday Overload: Don’t let holiday decorations take over the birthday party. Keep the birthday space festive but distinct from your holiday decor.

3. Don't Forget the Cake: Amidst the holiday cookies and treats, a birthday cake with candles is a must. It’s a simple gesture that can mean a lot.

4. Don't Delay the Celebration: Try not to postpone birthday celebrations due to holiday commitments. Celebrate on or as close to the actual birthday as possible.

5. No Last-Minute Plans: With the December rush, last-minute plans can feel haphazard. Plan the birthday with as much care as you would any other special day.



Special Considerations

For Teens and Adults: A cozy winter-themed party or a small gathering at a favorite restaurant can be delightful. It's a chance to unwind from the holiday frenzy.

For Kids: Themed parties that reflect their interests, like a technology-based gaming party or a mini-NASCAR race, can make their day extra special.

For Seniors: A nostalgic gathering with family, sharing stories and memories, can be heartwarming. It's a time to reminisce and create new memories.

In conclusion, celebrating a December birthday is all about making the birthday person feel special and valued. It's a time to show them that their day is just as important as the festive season. With a little planning and creativity, you can make a December birthday as joyful and memorable as any other month!